Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Keeping With Tradition

This was the first Memorial Day in a LONG time that I have been here in Utah.  
Every Memorial Day since I can remember, my family has visited the grave sites of my Grandpa Olsen's parents and of his brothers that had passed away.

The past 8 Memorial Days we were in Bakersfield, so I was pretty excited to take the kids to the cemetery and continue the tradition with them.  
Since we went a little later in the morning most of my family had already been to the graves, so it was up to me to find them!   
I found my grandpa's brother who served during WWII right away (the American Flag probably helped a little bit), but I have to admit I got a little lost in our search for my great-grandparents! Luckily after a little while, Jared spotted them-- right next to where we had parked (and I don't mean kind of by our van-they were RIGHT by our van)!  
I told Jared I did a pretty good job in getting us in the general vicinity!  If you consider that I haven't been there for 8 years and all the other times I've been there someone in the family was there to take us to the exact spot!)
I think the kids really enjoyed it.  I didn't hear any complaining!  Nothing.  Not even one "this is taking too long, or this is boring!"

There was one moment at the cemetery I tucked away into my 'I want to remember this moment' vault in my head.
Buried right behind my great-grandparents is my grandpa's little brother who died when he was only 4 years old.   When I told Janie that he was only 4 when he died just like her, she went and pulled of a flower stem from the flowers we had brought, sat down by his grave and placed her flower there.  Too adorable!

In the afternoon, we headed over to Jared's brother's house for a BBQ.  It was such yummy food and the weather was perfect!

It's always fun to sit down and chat with the family.  The kids have so much fun just playing with the cousins.  It was such a fun, relaxing, memorable day!

7 comments:

Shane's Angie said...

Hey Lani! Good job getting to the graves, we didn't even get to our ward Memorial Day parade. We were that pathetic (the stomach flu hit the chickies Sunday night!)
The pictures are adorable...let's talk baptism soon!

DOLLCASA said...

I am so glad you get to have all those wonderful experiences in Utah.That was so cute what Janie did with the flower.I hope you have a great summer.

Keith said...

What a great tradition. I have nothing but respect for those who have served in defending our freedom.

Grant said...

Thanks for the post and the pictures. Rachel said that we need to get Tammy started. She certainly has enough pictures! And thanks for putting on the button. We're looking forward to the baptism.

Jek said...

Thanks for the comment! WHy did your daughter have to wear it for sooo long? Mine should only be 2.5 months. 10 months would have made me CRAZY!!!!! I can't believe you have 5 kids. that is awesome. How many grandkids do your parents have? Do you think you want more? Maybe a bit personal?? your kids are so cute!

Marlo said...

glad you all had such a great time at the cemetary

Maddie said...

I had a great time playing and having fun at Grant's house. I was glad I went up to see the graves.